Setting Goals for the New Year

Like most people, I have new goals for myself for year 2010. I really prefer not to call these New Year Resolutions, because that sounds to me like something that I’ll never achieve. I know that many people have New Year Resolutions, and NEVER stick to them. I’m not sure I know anybody who has ever stuck with one. There are some who would prefer to put a more positive spin on this term by calling their goals – destinations, but that doesn’t do much for me. So, I will simply call these goals.
I do believe that putting your goals out for others to see makes these goals much more likely to be accomplished…..and that’s what I’ve decided to do. I do have other (and more measurable) goals than what I’ve listed here, but these are what I desire the most.
1. Spend More Time Reading God’s Word
I call myself a Christian. Actually, it’s much more than that. I am a follower of Christ. I’m far from perfect and really don’t deserve it, but God loves me in spite of who I am. I’m His, and He is mine. He is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. I know many of you who will read this don’t believe in Christ. We all have that choice to make. I’m willing to share my beliefs with anyone, but I don’t force them. Having said that, I plan to draw closer to God this year than I ever have before…..by spending time in prayer, study, and obedience.
2. Become a Better Husband
I am a family man at my core level. I love being married and I love my wife. I don’t think I’m a bad husband, but I want to be a better one, because I love her and think she deserves better than what she’s gotten. I also think improving as a husband will make me a better father to my son, and that’s always on my mind. So, I want to be a good family man, and continue to be one my family can respect and count on. How can I be a better husband? Well, I think there are a lot of things…and it’s mostly through the little things. I just watched the movie Fireproof a couple of days ago, and was completely inspired to improve in this area of my life.
3. Improve My Health
I plan to improve my health in a variety of ways this year. I recently found out that I have Sleep Apnea, which I’m being treated for right now. This has renewed my interest in taking care of myself physically. I’ve heard many times that “You are what you eat”. There is a lot of truth in that phrase. I plan to eat in a more nutritious way, and be more active. That will probably mean less time in front of this computer. But the thing is, our habits define us in so many ways, you know?
Conclusion
Like I’ve already said, there are other goals I have and other things I want to accomplish in 2010, but these 3 things are at the very top of my priority list. We all have to look at our lives from time to time and take stock of the direction we’re heading in and what the most important things really are. If you have not done this lately, I encourage you to. Now that I’ve probably alienated every reader I’ve ever had on this blog
(I did say the subject matter would broaden), thanks for reading.

Great goals, Anthony. I have no doubt that you will meet and exceed them all.
Thanks for the encouragement. I certainly plan to!
Hi Anthony,
You didn’t alienate me, and I admire your courage for standing up for what you believe. You may never know, but I’m sure you have inspired others.
Debbie
Thanks Debbie,
I think a person should be who they are, don’t you? I used to want to keep a certain level of privacy about myself on the internet. That’s still probably a good idea to an extent, but sometimes it’s easy to go overboard on that….and I probably have.
I sort of “opened up” so to speak in this post by sharing a little about my faith, proclaiming love for my wife, and revealing a health issue I’m having. So maybe I’ve grown a little. If someone is inspired, all the better!
Hi Anthony,
I’ve been happy to see you posting more! You have a nice way with written communication, you ought to keep at it. So here’s another reader you haven’t alienated. Many blessings in the coming year.
Well Hi Jerri, How are you? Thanks, and many blessings to you as well! Happy New Year!